Handphone Nokia sebagai modem di Mac

Bagi kamu2 yang mau jadiin handphone Nokia kamu sebagai modem di Mac. Ikuti langkah2 berikut : (Ho5X)

Pertama-tama pastiin hp Nokia kamu sudag ada jaringan internetnya (GPRS/3G) kalo sudah konekin hp nokia kamu ke laptop via Bluetooth or Cabel

Kedua setting modem yang dikalukan di Mac :

1. Klik Logo Apple dan pilih System Preferences

2. Pilih Network nanti akan terlihat seperti ini

3. Selanjutnya pilih hp nokia kamu

4. Untuk mengisi Telephone Number, Account Name dan Password disesuaikan dengan jaringan (Telkomsel, Indosat or XL).

5. Selanjutnya anda klik tombol Advanced dan akan muncul tampilan seperti ini

6. Pada bagian vendor anda pilih Nokia, Model GPRS (GSM / 3G) dan untuk APN disesuaikan dengan jaringan (Telkomsel, Indosat or XL).

7. Selanjutnya anda klik tombol OK dan silahkan coba untuk Connect.

Ketiga "Happy Surfing !!" 


Thanks to who asking ^^

Dapatkan Segera 1.500.000 !!!

Unsaid words ...

i love to see you again 

but

sorry i can not answer your call
sorry i can not beside you anymore

my times has ended and you has become a bird
now you can fly far far away

the birdie now has been a bird
and can go fly high and far far away
just fly

far away here i always watching you

i wish you happy there
i always pray the best for you

hope we can meet in a accidental way

Dedicated to someone

Sleepwalker by Milk Inc.

It doesn't feel right,
to see the daylight,
if you're not here,
if you're not here with me.

[SLEEP]

In my sleep, I can still hear you,
In my sleep, I can still feel you,
Every word you say, echoes yesterday,
But you turned and walked away.

Every day feels just the same,
But even so, too much has changed,
since you're away.

It doesn't feel right,
to see the daylight,
if you're not here,
if you're not here with me.

In my sleep, I can still hear you,
In my sleep, I can still feel you,
Every word you say, echoes yesterday,
But you turned and walked away.

Every night I sleep alone,
Nothing makes me feel at home,
'since you're away.

It doesn't feel right,
to see the daylight,
if you're not here,
if you're not here with me.

[SLEEP]

In my sleep, I can still hear you,
In my sleep, I can still feel you,
Every word you say, echoes yesterday,
But you turned and walked away.

Maybe by Milk Inc (ft. regie)

Just another day,
I’m wondering through the city trying to find my way,
But I see you,
And every stranger that walks by,
They all seem to ask me why,
But I don't know,
If there’s a cure,
To stop me from feeling insecure,
I just want to be sure that,
Maybe,
Your better off without me,
Maybe,
Things will turn out for the best,
But how can I be sure,
What the future holds in store,
If you only knew that maybe I love you.

Just another word,
To tell the same old story I've already heard,
No one knows,
Why I've been acting so strangely,
They all should just let me be.
Cause I don’t know if there’s a cure,
Just stop me from feeling insecure,
I just want to be sure that,
Maybe,
Your better off without me,
Maybe,
Things will turn out for the best,
But how can I be sure,
What the future holds in store,
If you only knew that maybe,
I love you.

Drifting out of sight,
I chased the same old shadows every day and night.

But I hear you,
Your footsteps echo around me,
They still haven't found me though.

I look around,
But your not there,
Are we still going anywhere?
Do you even care?

Are you around that corner?

Am I getting warmer?

Are you on your way?

Can I find the words to say that?
Maybe,
Your better off without me,
Maybe,
Things will turn out for the best,
But how can I be sure,
What the future holds in store,
If you only knew that maybe,
I love you.

November by Milk Inc

Bm
It's Not That Bad At All
             G
It's Not That Big A Deal
Bm
Everyone's Assuring Me
    A
My Fortune's 'Bout To Change
              Bm
But I've Been Here Before
        G               D
I Don't Need No One To Tell Me
     A                Bm
That Life Is What You Make Of It
G
Believe Me

 
           Bm
November's Here Again
        G       A
Raining Down On Me
       Bm
I Disappear Again
              G    A
Just Like The Memories
        Bm       G
Let The Days Go By
        D        A        Bm      G
So I Can Say Goodbye To November
D         A
 Say Goodbye

              Bm
It's Not That Long Ago
            G
But It's So Far Away
Bm
Everyone's Assuring Me
       A
It Was Time To walk Away
        Bm
Now I'm Here Alone
        G               D
I Don't Need No One To Tell Me
   A                     Bm 
I Know What You've Been Going Through
G
Believe Me


           Bm
November's Here Again
        G       A
Raining Down On Me
      Bm
I Disappear Again
              G    A
Just Like The Memories
         Bm      G
Let The Days Go By
        D         A        Bm     G
So I Can Say Goodbye To November
D         A
 Say Goodbye


(Solo, same chords as chorus "november's here again...)


D         A
 Say Goodbye


           Bm
November's Here Again
        G       A
Raining Down On Me
      Bm  
I Disappear Again
              G    A
Just Like The Memories
         Bm     G
Let The Days Go By
        D         A        Bm     G
So I Can Say Goodbye To November
D         A        Bm
 Say Goodbye To November

StuffIt Expander

StuffIt Expander is a freeware, closed source, decompression software utility developed by Allume Systems (formerly Aladdin Systems). It runs in Mac OS Classic, Mac OS X, Microsoft Windows, and Linux x86/UNIX. As of November 2008, the latest Macintosh version is 2009 (13.0.3), which requires Mac OS X v10.4 or later. Version 10.0.2 runs on Mac OS X v10.3, and version 8.0.2 runs on Mac OS X v10.0-Mac OS X v10.2. The latest version for Mac OS 9 is 7.0.3.[1] StuffIt has been a target of criticism and dissatisfaction from Mac users in the past as the file format changes frequently, notably during the introduction of StuffIt version 5.0. Expander 5.0 contained many bugs, and its file format was not readable by the earlier version 4.5, leaving Mac users of the time without a viable compression utility.

The latest stand-alone version for Windows is 2009 (13.0). Contrary to the version 12.0, which was only able to decompress the newer .sitx (and ZIP) archives, version 2009 claim to be able to decompress over 30 formats, some listed below. The executables require both, the .NET v2.0 framework and MSVC 2008 (9.0) runtimes. The previous stand-alone version able to decompress .sit and other Mac OS specific archives was 7.02, distributed with StuffIt v7.0.x for Windows. From versions 7.5.x to 11 the Expander capabilities were actually performed by the StuffIt Standard Edition, that allowed decompression even after the end of the trial period. To start StuffIt in Expander mode the following command line switches were used: -expand -uiexpander.[2] Note that the registration reminder dialogue box is not shown in this case.

There is also a command line DOS application UNSTUFF v1.1 that allows decompression of .sit files.

StuffIt Expander 2009 decompresses files in the following formats:

    * 7-Zip (.7z, .cb7)
    * AppleSingle (.as)
    * Arc (.arc)
    * ARJ (.arj)
    * BinHex (.hqx), all versions
    * BTOA (.b2a, .btoa)
    * bzip2 (.bzip, .bzip2, .bz, .bz2, .tbz, .tbz2, .tar.bz, .tar.bz2)
    * CAB (.cab)
    * Compact Pro (.cpt)
    * gzip (.gz, .tgz)
    * LHA (.lha, .lzh)
    * LZMA (.lzma, .tlzma, .tar.lzma)
    * MacBinary (.bin, .macbin), all versions
    * MIME/Base 64 (.mime)
    * Private File (.pF), Aladdin's encryption file format
    * RAR (.rar, .rNN, .cbr, .partNN.rar), including segmented
    * SpaceSaver StuffIt compression format used in versions prior 5.x
    * StuffIt (.sit, .sitx, .sit.N, .partNN.sitx, .sea, .exe) v1.5.1 to 8.0.x, including encrypted, segmented and self-extracting archive
    * tar (.tar, .gtar, .gnutar, .ustar, .cbt)
    * Unix Compress (.Z, .z, .taz)
    * UU (.uu, .uue, .enc), PC/Unix 8 bit to 7 bit encoding similar to BinHex (.hqx)
    * yEncode (.ync, .y)
    * ZIP (.zip, .zNN, .cbz, .exe), including encrypted, Zip64, segmented and self-extracting archive

See also : StuffIt (.sitx)

Source : http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/StuffIt_Expander

StuffIt (.sitx)

StuffIt is a family of computer software utilities for archiving and compressing files on the Macintosh and Microsoft Windows platforms: it was originally produced for the Macintosh. An old version (5.2.0?) for Linux (x86) and Sun Solaris 2.7 or later is also available. [1][2] The proprietary compression format used by the StuffIt utilities is also termed StuffIt.

StuffIt was originally developed in the summer of 1987 by Raymond Lau,[3] who was then a high school student at Stuyvesant High School in New York City. It combined the fork-combining capabilities of utilities such as MacBinary with newer compression algorithms similar to those used in ZIP. Compared to existing utilities on the Mac, notably PackIt, StuffIt offered "one step" operation and higher compression ratios. By the fall of 1987 StuffIt had largely replaced PackIt in the Mac world, with many software sites even going so far as to convert existing PackIt archives to save more space.

StuffIt soon became very popular and Aladdin Systems was formed to market it (the last shareware release by Lau was version 1.5.1). They split the product line in two, offering StuffIt Classic in shareware and StuffIt Deluxe as a commercial package. Deluxe added a variety of additional functions, including additional compression methods and integration into the Mac Finder to allow files to be compressed from a "Magic Menu" without opening StuffIt itself.

StuffIt was upgraded several times, but Lau had removed himself from direct development and major upgrades to the "internal machinery" were rare. As a result, the shareware utility Compact Pro emerged as a competitor to StuffIt's in the early 1990s through a combination of ease-of-use, better compression and higher speed.[citation needed] In fact, Compact Pro could uncompress StuffIt archives at roughly twice the speed of StuffIt itself. Compact Pro development has been discontinued and does not support Mac OS X.[citation needed]

A major upgrade followed in order to compete, adding the freeware StuffIt Expander in order to make the format more universally acceptable, as well as the shareware StuffIt Lite which made it easier to produce — prior to this anyone attempting to use the format needed to buy StuffIt, making Compact Pro more attractive. This move was very successful, and Compact Pro disappeared almost overnight.

Several other Mac compression utilities appeared and disappeared during the 1990s, but none became a real threat to StuffIt's market. The only ones to see any widespread use were special-purpose "disk expanders" like DiskDoubler and SuperDisk!, which served a different niche. Apparently as a side-effect, StuffIt once again saw few upgrades. PC-based formats long surpassed StuffIt in terms of compression, notably newer systems like RAR and 7z. These had little impact on the Mac market, as most of these never appeared in an easy-to-use program on the Mac.

With the introduction of OpenStep as the basis for what would become Mac OS X, newer Mac software lost their forks and no longer needed anything except the built-in Unix utilities like gzip and tar. Numerous programs "wrapping" these utilities were distributed, and since these files could be opened on any machine, they were considerably more practical than StuffIt in an era when most data is cross-platform. Although the writing was clearly on the wall, StuffIt did not respond to this change in the market, and when OS X was eventually released in 2001 they did not have a version supporting the new operating system.

Although it was late to market, Aladdin introduced the completely new StuffIt X in September 2002 with StuffIt Deluxe 7.0 for Macintosh. It was designed to be extendable, support more compression methods, support long file names, and support Unix and Windows file attributes. StuffIt X improves over the original StuffIt format and its descendants by adding multiple compression algorithms such as PPM, and BWT to LZW-type compression. It also added a "block mode" option and several encryption options. In January 2005, JPEG compression was added as a StuffIt X compression option (see the related 'SIF Format' below).

Until the 2005 release of Mac OS X v10.4 "Tiger", StuffIt Expander came preloaded with the Macintosh operating system.

Although Mac files generally did not use filename extensions, one of StuffIt's primary uses was to allow Mac files to be stored on non-Mac systems where extensions were required. StuffIt-compressed files typically have the extension .sit, although newer Stuffit X-compressed files carry the file extension .sitx. Encrypted StuffIt archives created with the now-discontinued Private File utility will have .pf extensions. StuffIt-compressed ShrinkWrap disk images will carry .img or .image extensions. However, a Classic version of StuffIt is needed to mount the images or convert them to a newer format readable in Mac OS X.

Allume Systems offers free downloads of StuffIt Expander for Mac and Windows, which expands (uncompresses) files compressed using the StuffIt and StuffIt X format, as well as many other compressed, encoded, encrypted and segmented formats. The shareware application DropStuff permits the compressing of files into the StuffIt X format.

The StuffIt and StuffIt X formats remain, unlike some other file compression formats, proprietary, and Allume Systems charge license fees for its use in other programs. Given this, few alternative programs support the format.

See also : Stuffit Expander

Source : http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/StuffIt

No Surprise by Daughtry

CAPO I

INTRO
D Asus

VERSE I
D                                            Asus
I've practiced this for hours, gone round and round
 Asus                                Bm
And now I think that I've got it all down
                                     G
And as I say it louder I love how it sounds
                                  E
Cause I'm not taking the easy way out

PRECHORUS
E
Not wrapping this in ribbons
E                 G
Shouldn't have to give a reason why...

CHORUS
        D
It's NO SURPRISE I won't be here tomorrow
          Asus
I can't believe that I stayed till today
             Bm
Yeah you and I will be a tough act to follow
      G                   Asus               D
But I know in time we'll find this was NO SURPRISE

VERSE 2
D                                      Asus
It came out like a river once I let it out
                                    Bm
When I thought that I wouldn't know how
                                     G
Held onto it forever just pushing it down
                             E
Felt so good to let go of it now

PRECHORUS
E
Not wrapping this in ribbons
E                 G
Shouldn't have to give a reason why

CHORUS
        D
It's NO SURPRISE I won't be here tomorrow
        Asus
I can't believe that I stayed till today
                Bm
There's nothing here in this heart left to borrow
                G                         Asus
There's nothing here in this soul left to say
         D
Don't be surprised when we hate this tomorrow
            Asus
God know we tried to find an easier way
             Bm
Yeah you and I will be a tough act to follow
      G                  Asus             D
But I know in time we'll find this was NO SURPRISE

BRIDGE
    D
Our favorite place we used to go
    Asus
The warm embrace that no one knows
    Bm
The loving look that's left your eyes
       G                 Asus        D
That's why this comes as no, as NO SURPRISE

VERSE 3
           D                                Asus
If I could see the future and how this plays out
                                    Bm
I bet it's better than where we are now
                                             G
But after going through this, it's easier to see the reason why

CHORUS
            D
It's NO SURPRISE I won't be here tomorrow
         Asus
I can't believe that I stayed till today
            Bm
Yeah you and I will be a tough act to follow
        G                 Asus                  D
But I know in time we'll find this was NO SURPRISE

OUTRO
      D
Our favorite place we used to go
     Asus
The warm embrace that no one knows
     Bm
The loving look that's left your eyes
      G                   Asus                D
But I know in time we'll find this was NO SURPRISE

Then by Brad Paisley

Tuning: Standard

(verse)
C          G
I remember tryin not to stare the
                   Am
night that i first met you
F
You had me mezmoriezed and
C                                   
three weeks later in the front porch light
G
takin 45 minutes to kiss goodnight
Am
i hadnt told you yet
F
i thought i loved you then


(chorus)
C                     G
now your my whole life
G                     Am
now your my whole world
Am          F
i just cant believe the way i
F              C
feel about you girl
C                         G
like a river meets the sea
G                          Am
stronger than its ever been
Am                            F
weve come so far since that day
F                             C
and i thought i loved you then


(verse)
C              G
and i remember takin you back
                       Am
to right where i frist met you
F   
you were so surprised
C                       
there wre people around but i didnt care
G
i got down on one knee right there
Am
and once again
F
i thought i loved you then


(chorus)
C                     G
now your my whole life
G                      Am
now your my whole world
Am             F
i just cant believe the way i
F                  C
feel about you girl
C                           G
like the river meets the sea
G                          Am
stronger than its ever been
Am                             F
weve come so far since that day
F                             C
and i thought i loved you then


(bridge)
G
i can just see you
       F           C
with a baby on the way
G
i can just see you
          F              C
when your hair is turnin grey
Am                  C
what i cant see is how im ever
G              F
gonna love you more
                     G
but ive said that before


(chorus)
C                     G
now your my whole life
G                      Am
now your my whole world
Am              F
i just cant believe the way i
F                  C
feel about you girl
C                     G
well look back someday
G                          Am
at this moment that were in
Am                       F
and i look at you and say
F                             C
and i thought i loved you then

F                             C
and i thought i loved you then

(Solo)

Love Story by Taylor Swift

Capo 2 (this is the way Taylor plays it)

Intro: C  G  Am  F

C
We were both young when i first saw you
F
I close my eyes and the flashback starts
Am                       F
Im standing there on a balcony of summer air

C
See the lights, See the party the ball gowns
       F
I see you make your way through the crowd
          Am
You say hello
              G
Little did i know

           F                      G
That you were romeo you were throwing pebbles
          Am                       C
And my daddy said stay away from Juliet
            F
And i was crying on the staircase
  G                      Am         C
Begging you please don't go, and i said

  C
Romeo take me somewhere we can be alone
 G
I'll be waiting all theres left to do is run
 Am
You'll be the prince and i'll be the princess
 F                G                 C
Its a love story baby just say yes

 C
So i sneak out to the garden to see you
 F
We keep quite because we're dead if they know
 Am
So close your eyes
        G
Let’s keep this down for a little while
            F                   G
Cause you were Romeo I was a scarlet letter
         Am                        C
and my daddy said stay away from Juliet


         F
But you were everything to me
            G                      Am            C
and i was begging you please don't go and i said

 C
Romeo take me somewhere we can be alone
 G
I'll be waiting all theres left to do is run
 Am
You be the prince i'll be the princess
 F                G                 C
Its a love story baby just say yes

  C
Romeo save me, try to tell me how it is
  G
This love is difficult, but its real,
  Am
Save me from the breakdown, make it out of looseness
 F                G
Its a love story baby just say yes, oh

Solo: C  G  Am  F

                 Am     F               C              G
I got tired of waiting,   wondering if you were ever coming around
             Am        F
My faith in you was fading
                         C           G
Then i met you on the outskirts of town and i said
  C
Romeo save me i've been feeling so alone
   G
I keep waiting for you but you never come
    Am
Is this in my head, i don't know what to think
    F                       G
He nelt to the ground and pulled out a ring and said
  D
Marry me Juliet you'll never have to be alone
   A
I love you and thats all I really know
   Bm
I talked to your dad go pick out a white dress
 G                 A            D
Its a love story baby just say yes
D   A   Bm
Oh, oh, yes
         G                           D
We were very young when i first saw you 

I am strong by DJ Tiesto feat. Priscilla Ahn

in the moonlight in the daylight struggle to get on
and u know me understand me u will make me strong
u will make me strong
u will make me strong

look at me here i am reaching for your arm again
i saw the hurt and all the pain and give back form my sleep again

he was saying for the cryng i`m not alone
coz he see me want to be me
melankolis so
melankolis so

look at me here i am reaching for your arm again
i saw the hurt and all the pain and give back form my sleep again

aa....aaa.......aa.....
there is no fear there is peace here
i'll found the home

look at me here i am reaching for your arm again
i saw the hurt and all the pain and give back form my sleep again

i'm struggle not alone
i'm struggle not alone
i'm struggle not alone

- if there is something wrong please let me know -

I do not hook up by Kelly Clarkson

standard tuning EADGBE

Chords used:

       E5     A5     C#5    F#5    Bb5    Ab5    C#5    B5
E||------------------------------------------------------------|
B||------------------------------------------------------------|
G||-----9-------------6----------------------------------------|
D||-----9------7------6------4------8------6------11-----9-----|
A||----(7)-----7-----(4)-----4------8------6------11-----9-----|
E||-----------(5)-----------(2)----(6)----(4)----(9)----(7)----|


Intro E5 A5 C#5 A5

Verse
E5              A5              C#5
Oh, sweetheart, put the bottle down
            A5
You've got too much talent
E5         A5                     C#5
I see you through those bloodshot eyes
           A5
There's a cure, you've found it
E5            A5                        C#5
Slow motion, sparks You've caught that chill
     A5    
Now don't deny it
E5               A5
But boys will be boys
              C#5
Oh, yes, they will
      F#5
They don't wanna define it

A5
Just give up the game and get into me
Bb5
If you're looking for thrills then get cold feet


Chorus
E5       Ab5 A5      E5
Oh, no I do not hook up,
     Ab5 A5
up I go slow
C#5
So if you want me,
F#5
I don't come cheap
A5
Keep your hand in my hand,
B5
your heart on your sleeve
E5       Ab5 A5      E5
Oh, no I do not hook up,
     Ab5  A5
up I fall deep
C#5                     F#5
Cause the more that you try,
                 A5
the harder I'll fight
   B5
To say goodnight


Verse 2(same as verse 1)
I can't cook no,
but I can clean
Up the mess you left
Lay your head down and feel the beat
As I kiss your forehead
This may not last but this is now
So love the one you're with

You wanna chase but you're chasin' your tail
A quick fix won't ever get you well


Chorus

Bridge
C#5
Cause I feel
E5
The distance
A5       F#5
Between us
        C#5  E5
Could be over
      A5               Bb5
With the snap of your finger


E5 Ab5 A5 x2
C#5 F#5 A5 B5

chorus

end with E5

My Life Would Suck Without You by Kelly Clarkson

Capo 2

Intro: G C G Bm Em C D

G
Guess this means you're sorry
       C              G
You're standing at my door
Bm                   Em
Guess this means you take back
C               D
All you said before
G
Like how much you wanted
C          G
Anyone but me
Bm               Em
Said you'd never come back
    C             D
But here you are again


           G      Em     C    D
Cause we belong together now, yeah
         G     Em       C    D
Forever united here somehow, yeah
          G        Em
You got a piece of me
Am        C
And honestly
   G          Em       C   D
My life would suck without you

G                      C               G
Maybe I was stupid for telling you goodbye
Bm          Em        C                D
Maybe I was wrong for tryin' to pick a fight
G                   
I know that I've got issues
           C                G
But you're pretty messed up too
Bm        Em            C               D
Anyway, I found out I'm nothing without you


           G      Em     C    D
Cause we belong together now, yeah
         G     Em       C    D
Forever united here somehow, yeah
          G        Em
You got a piece of me
Am        C
And honestly
   G          Em       C   D
My life would suck without you


G                 C            G
Being with you is so dysfunctional
  Bm               Em            C               D
I really shouldn't miss you, but I can't let you go
     G
Oh yeah


Break: C G Bm Em C D


           G      Em     C    D
Cause we belong together now, yeah
         G     Em       C    D
Forever united here somehow, yeah
          G        Em
You got a piece of me
Am        C
And honestly
   G          Em       C   D
My life would suck without you

Kadosh

Am Dm Am
Kadosh, kadosh, kadosh
Am Dm Am
Kadosh, kadosh, kadosh
G Em Am
Adonai, Elohim, Tz'va'ot
G Em Am
Adonai, Elohim, Tz'va'ot
A G D A
Asher hayah V'hoveh v'yavo
A G D A
Asher hayah V'hoveh v'yavo
Am Dm Am Am Dm Am
Holy holy holy, Holy holy holy
G Em Am
Is the Lord, our God, Lord of hosts
G Em Am
Is the Lord, our God, Lord of hosts
A G D A
Who was and Who is, And Who is to come
A G D A
Who was and Who is, And Who is to come

Istilah "Kadosh" berasal dari kata Ibrani, yang berarti suci atau disucikan.
(Sumber : http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Knight_Kadosh)

Cinta ...

Sudah banyak lagu digubah, puisi ditulis, dan kanvas dilukis untuk menggambarkan cinta. Tapi apakah cinta itu sebenarnya? Tentunya seorang pelukis akan berbeda dengan seorang pencipta lagu dalam menjelaskan cinta. Bahkan setiap orang akan mendefinisikan cinta dengan cara yang berbeda.

Psikologi sebagai ilmu yang mempelajari manusia, sudah lama tertarik dengan konsep cinta (misalnya Eric Fromm dan Maslow) karena manusia satu-satunya makhluk yang dapat merasakan cinta. Hanya saja masalahnya, sebagai sebuah konsep, cinta sedemikian abstraknya sehingga sulit untuk didekati secara
ilmiah. Saya mencoba memilih teori seorang psikolog, Robert Sternberg (1988), yang telah berusaha untuk menjabarkan cinta dalam konteks hubungan antara dua orang.

Menurut Sternberg (1988), cinta adalah sebuah kisah, kisah yang ditulis oleh setiap orang. Kisah tersebut merefleksikan kepribadian, minat dan perasaan seseorang terhadap suatu hubungan. Ada kisah tentang perang memperebutkan kekuasaan, misteri, permainan dan sebagainya. Kisah pada setiap orang
berasal dari "skenario" yang sudah dikenalnya, apakah dari orang tua, pengalaman, cerita dan sebagainya. Kisah ini biasanya mempengaruhi orang bagaimana ia bersikap dan bertindak dalam sebuah hubungan.

Sternberg (1988) terkenal dengan teorinya tentang *Triangular Theory of Love* (segitiga cinta). Segitiga cinta itu mengandung komponen:

1. Keintiman (*intimacy*)
2. Gairah (*passion*)
3. Komitmen (*commitment*)

Keintiman adalah elemen emosi, yang di dalamnya terdapat kehangatan, kepercayaan (*trust*) dan keinginan untuk membina hubungan. Ciri-cirinya antara lain seseorang akan merasa dekat dengan seseorang, senang bercakap-cakap dengannya sampai waktu yang lama, merasa rindu bila lama
tidak bertemu, dan ada keinginan untuk bergandengan tangan atau saling merangkul bahu.

Gairah adalah elemen motivasional yang didasari oleh dorongan dari dalam diri yang bersifat seksual.

Komitmen adalah elemen kognitif, berupa keputusan untuk secara sinambung dan tetap menjalankan suatu kehidupan bersama. Menurut Sternberg (1988), setiap komponen itu pada setiap orang berbeda derajatnya. Ada yang hanya tinggi di gairah, tapi rendah pada komitmen. Sedangkan cinta yang ideal adalah apabila ketiga komponen itu berada dalam proporsi yang sesuai pada suatu waktu tertentu. Misalnya pada tahap awal hubungan, yang paling besar adalah komponen keintiman. Setelah keintiman berlanjut pada gairah yang lebih besar (dalam beberapa budaya), disertai dengan komitmen yang lebih besar. Misalnya melalui perkawinan.

Dari ketiga komponen cinta diatas, dapat membentuk delapan kombinasi jenis cinta sebagai berikut:

1. *Nonlove*, tak ada gairah yang timbul, biasanya hubungan dengan orang dalam lingkungan sehari-hari karena interaksinya hanya bersifat sepintas saja, tidak memiliki komponen gairah, keintiman dan komitmen
2. *Liking* (persahabatan), sebagai salah satu komponen emosi yang ada adalah perasaan suka bukanlah cinta, hanya memiliki komponen keintiman
3. *Infatuation love* (ketergila-gilaan), gairah yang timbul tanpa keintiman dan komitmen, biasanya cinta yang terjadi pada pandangan pertama
4. *Empty love* (cinta kosong), ada unsur komitmen tetapi kurang intim dan kurang gairah. Hubungan yang lama akan semakin membosankan
5. *Romantic love* (cinta romantis), hubungan intim yang menggairahkan tetapi kurang komitmen sehingga pasangan yang jatuh cinta romantis ini terbawa secara fisik dan emosi, tetapi tidak mengharapkan hubungan jangka panjang
6. *Companionate love*, hasil dari komponen keintiman dan komitmen tanpa adanya gairah cinta. Dalam perkawinan yang lama tidak akan menggairahkan secara fisik lagi
7. *Fatous love* (cinta buta), mempunyai gairah dan komitmen tetapi kurang intim, dimana cinta ini sulit dipertahankan karena kurang adanya aspek emosi
8. *Consummate love* (cinta yang sempurna), yaitu cinta yang tersusun atas komponen keintiman, gairah dan komitmen.

Pada remaja, diharapkan mulai mengenali cinta melalui hubungan yang mengandung komponen keintiman. Mulai dari tahap perkenalan, lalu menjadi teman akrab, lalu sahabat. Pada tahap persahabatan, baik dengan lawan jenis maupun sesama jenis kelamin, diharapkan berkembang perasaan hangat, kedekatan dan emosi-emosi lain yang lebih kaya. Dalam hubungan antar jenis, persahabatan dapat berkembang dengan komitmen pacaran. Pada tahap pacaran ini keintiman dapat muncul komponen gairah dengan proporsi yang relatif rendah.

Pada pasangan yang telah dewasa, bila faktor-faktor emosional dan sosial telah dinilai siap, maka hubungan itu dapat dilanjutkan dengan membuat komitmen perkawinan. Dalam perkawinan, diharapkan ketiga komponen ini tetap hadir dan sama kuatnya.

Pada budaya tertentu, komitmen dianggap sebagai kekuatan utama dalam perkawinan. Karena itu banyak perkawinan (dalam budaya tersebut) yang hanya dilandasi oleh komitmen masing-masing pihak pada lembaga perkawinan itu sendiri. Perkawinan dipandang sebagai keharusan budaya dan agama untuk
melanjutkan keturunan, atau karena usia, atau untuk meningkatkan status, atau sebab-sebab lain. Perkawinan seperti ini akan terasa kering karena baik suami maupun istri hanya menjalankan kewajibannya saja.

Variasi lain, perkawinan hanya dianggap sebagai lembaga yang mengesahkan hubungan seksual. Perkawinan semacam ini kehilangan sifat persahabatannya, yang ditandai dengan tidak adanya kemesraan suami istri, seperti makan bersama, berbincang-bincang, saling berpelukan dan sebagainya.

Seperti telah diuraikan sebelumnya, pola hubungan cinta seseorang sangat ditentukan oleh pengalamannya sendiri mulai dari masa kanak-kanak. Bagaimana orang tuanya saling mengekspresikan perasaan cinta (atau malah bertengkar melulu), hubungan awal dengan teman-teman dekat, kisah-kisah romantis sampai yang horor, dan seterusnya, akan membekas dan mempengaruhi seseorang dalam berhubungan. Karenanya setiap orang disarankan untuk menyadari kisah cinta yang ditulis untuk dirinya sendiri.

Memang teori Sternberg (1988) tentang cinta ini belumlah lengkap dan memuaskan semua orang. Misalnya bagaimana teori ini dapat menjelaskan cinta ibu terhadap anaknya? Atau bagaimana cinta dapat dipertentangkan dengan perang dan kebencian? Hanya saja, sebagai sebuah deskripsi ilmiah terhadap
fenomena cinta, teori ini dapat dikatakan cukup membantu dalam memetakan pola-pola hubungan cinta antar individu.

Dedicated to Ich

Being happy doesn't,,,

"Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect. It means that you've decided to look beyond the imperfections."

Ever has it been that love,,,

"Ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation."

I Wonder by Diffuser

Intro X4

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Second Guitar
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Verse

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PM   ^^    ^^    ^^    ^^    ^^    ^^    ^^    ^^                ^^    ^^

Verse continued

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PM   ^^    ^^    ^^    ^^    ^^    ^^

Second Guitar
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Chorus X2

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PM                                 ^^ ^^ ^^ ^^

Second guitar
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Second Guitar continued
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Verse

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PM   ^^    ^^    ^^    ^^    ^^    ^^    ^^    ^^                ^^    ^^

Verse continued

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PM   ^^    ^^    ^^    ^^    ^^    ^^

Second Guitar
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Chorus X2

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PM                                 ^^ ^^ ^^ ^^

Second guitar
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Second Guitar continued
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Bridge
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PM   ^^    ^^    ^^    ^^

Bridge continued X2

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Second Guitar
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Chorus X2

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PM                                 ^^ ^^ ^^ ^^

Second guitar
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Second Guitar continued
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Outro

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Outro Continued

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PM   ^^    ^^    ^^    ^^

Outro continued

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